Is this the status quo?
Somehow, we’ve all agreed that paying someone to plaster your wall or changing your oil is perfectly normal, but hiring a cleaner or a home organiser feels like an indulgence.
Why?
A lot of the difference comes down to how we’ve been taught to value certain types of work. Tasks like car maintenance or DIY are often seen as specialised, technical, even essential. Meanwhile, cleaning, tidying, and organising are treated as things you “should just do”, quietly, in the background of your life.
I believe there’s also a gendered layer to this. Many of the tasks we hesitate to outsource are the ones historically expected of women. Of course we are talking about ancient stereotypes here, but nevertheless. And for some odd reason, those are the very same tasks that get labelled as “luxuries” when delegated.
But here’s a different way to look at it.
Every hour you spend doing something is an hour you are not spending doing something else. That’s your opportunity cost. Time spent scrubbing the bathroom is time not spent building your career, resting properly, seeing friends, going to the gym, or simply switching off.
And those things are not optional extras. They are essential.
What if, instead of squeezing leisure into whatever scraps of time are left after the chores, you flipped the order? What if you paid yourself first with rest, space, and time to recharge, and then built your life around that?
Outsourcing isn’t about being extravagant. It’s about being intentional with your energy.
You don’t have to do everything yourself to prove anything. Or to anyone.
Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is give yourself your time back.
